11 things you’ll understand only if you are in a long distance relationship.

A long distance relationship requires an extra effort to make it work. Some stay away from it while some break up while experiencing it. Only few are able to sustain it with happiness. If you are one of those who have ever experienced it or are willing to go for it, glance through these 10 points:

1. Oh! Initially the restlessness: 
You wonder if they miss you and freak out if you think that they don't. You wait for their messages. Worse, you hope every buzz on your cellphones is their message but it's not.

2. Phone, your eternal love:
Phone becomes the air without which you cannot live. Your source of connection will be your cellphone. Skype calls would be the ones you would wait for. Your friends will wonder why are you always on phone and what is it that you talk about every time with your love.

3. Late night calls/Day Calls:- 

You try to make a call any time when your lover is free. No wonder, there are different night call packages provided by mobile operators as they understand your needs.

4. The most asked query:

 Kiske saath ho? (Who is with you?) will be the most asked question.

5. Sleepy head, oh no!:

You will be often caught asleep while your partner is still busy talking to you. And next day face the consequences and awkwardness that you felt asleep while s(he) was still eager to talk to you.

6. Those complaints : 

The fights on "Why did you not lift my call?" After a fight, you tend to over-think if this is the end. What if your partner finds a new one in their other world, is the question that often lingers on your mind.

7. And those doubts:

Stalking becomes a favourite hobby. You've to be careful about the excess information your partner did not give but you spied on!

8.  The starry night and the moon:

You look at the sky and wonder if your special one too is looking at the moon. This way it helps you to feel that no matter what the distance you both are under the same sky.

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9. Hallucinations: 

You start developing illusions of your lover around you. You start talking to your lover in your mind as if you two are connected. You dream about your future with your lover. You meet each other in your dreams and in your self created images.

10. Developing new skills:

Oh! This can happen. Why not?

11. Surprises: 

You plan for surprises for meeting up. You plan about things you'll do for them when you meet them up. You prepare yourselves with gifts to pamper them on their birthdays, your anniversaries e.t.c.

Most people break up when they think about long distance relationship. But remember, nothing in life is permanent. If you truly love one another, just give it a try. You will learn aspects about each other that you had a blind eye on.

In the end, if this is your motivation, then you cannot avoid a long distance relationship.

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